September 16, 2017 is the day my life changed. The secret I had been hiding for 45 years finally exposed. The reality of my life-long experiences could no longer be ignored. What I thought were dreams, were not. Dreams don’t burn a red X into your back.
September 25, 2017 brought with it another shock, shifting my reality again. Another red X is burned into my back and, this time, I have a conscious memory of lying on a table, on my side, unable to move my arms and legs. I am able to move my head. I sense something behind me and turn to come face to face with a Grey. We stare into each other’s eyes. It is like looking into two pools of black oil. I am scared to death.
I have encountered the Greys before, in Baltimore MD, on Capitol Hill Wash DC, and in Roswell, NM. For most of my life I have had unexplainable, strange marks and bruises on my body. I spent decades ignoring my conscious memories filled with ETs and all the weird marks on my body; but I had a gut feeling my memories were real, I just couldn’t admit it to myself or to others.
I explain my struggle to process my ET Encounters in my book, You Have The Right To Talk To Aliens. I describe many of my ET Encounters and how they changed my life for the better. “Coming out” was very hard for me, but it has brought with it happiness, fulfillment, and excitement.
Many years ago, I decided to become the most authentic version of myself I can possibly be. I personally believe when we express our authenticity, we are happy, creative, loving, and deeply fulfilled. It is on this path of authenticity I arrived to the ET road block. I had to face it, deal with it, and move right through it. I refused to let this block prevent me from expressing the real me, the joyful me.
I had my “coming out” at AlienCon in Baltimore in November 2018. Since I went to college in Baltimore, lived there for 20 years, and had ET contact there, I found it fitting to “come out” there. It was a fantastic experience for me. I was a Guest Speaker and my talk was well received. As I sat at my vendor table, I was surprised that most of the people who approached me had an ET contact story of their own. Often they would start off with, “I have never told anyone this before…” And that is when I realized I have a mission to help Experiencers tell their stories. Keeping these fantastic experiences secret due to confusion or fear of ridicule affects one’s life. When the vibrations of secrecy are released, one’s internal and external reality changes beneficially.
I share my struggles in processing my ET experiences hoping that other Experiencers won’t have to go through what I did. I want to help Experiencers validate and process their contact and mostly, I want them to know that there is much to positively gain from these incredible events. This is why I created the free forum Encounters available on this website.
When I needed help, I reached out to Kathleen Marden who is the Director of Experiencer Research at MUFON and the niece of Betty & Barney Hill, the most famous abduction case from 1961. With her kind and sweet demeanor, Kathleen validated my experiences and made me realize I am not crazy. Much to my delight, she honored me by endorsing my book. The help she provided for me, I want to provide for other Experiencers.
Along with my Spiritual Counseling work, I talk and write about ETs and how we are part of a gigantic Galactic Neighborhood. I created Alien Spirit TV, a youtube channel. I have a newsletter dedicated to spirituality and ETs. Ultimately, spirituality and ETs collide. For spirituality is the path of oneness, and that includes the ETs.